Showing posts with label Gary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gary. Show all posts

Monday, January 24, 2022

A Treasure Trove of Books

 January 24, 2022

I gave my students several prompts to choose from to write some literacy narratives: stories about the way in which people, moments, or events helped shape their sense of themselves as readers and writers.  I thought I'd write to a couple of the prompts along with them.






My tendency toward book hoarding might very well have begun when I was the very young age of seven or eight.  I enjoyed reading, but probably loved all subjects equally at that age–I hadn’t really seen a front-runner emerge in terms of academic interests.  However, a random instance of the right place at the right time probably went a long way toward tipping the scales.


My brother and I were bus riders.  Our parents worked, so we clamored on the neighborhood school bus at the end of each day and got deposited some four or five blocks from our house.  We walked the rest of the way home alongside a handful of other kids from our block, with Gary tasked with making sure I didn’t get lost on the way.


Several weeks after walking the familiar route home, one day we saw a giant orange dumpster parked in front of one of the houses a couple of blocks from our house.  I don’t know why the first instinct of a couple of the boys was to climb up and peek in since we all knew that dumpsters were for trash,  but I suppose they thought they might be lucky and find an old discarded baseball glove or deflated basketball, or even an old broomstick handle that they could fashion into a makeshift sword to wield at the rest of us for fun.


The big dumpsters have metal ladders permanently affixed to the side.  The curious boys scrambled up and surveyed the possibilities.  One by one they climbed back down, scowling in disappointment. Gary asked what they had seen.  “Worthless!” one of the boys grumbled.  “The whole thing is filled with old books!”  My ears perked up.  Gary’s did too.  He climbed up.


“They’re right, Donna! Tons of books!”  He disappeared down into the dumpster and scoured the titles.  He came back down with a few.  I begged him to let me find some books too, and he told me I could as long as I was careful.  I could barely contain my excitement. Once I reached the top of the ladder my eyes were greeted with a veritable treasure trove.  Hundreds and hundreds of books had been tossed in–paperbacks, hardbacks, westerns, romance, classics–as far as the eye could see.  Some of them were missing book jackets or had torn pages, some of them were well-worn and others were in much better condition.  It was as if an entire library had been upended into the dumpster.  I reached down and picked up a book or two to read the back of the dust jacket to see which ones I wanted to take.  I got a little mired in indecision.  How could I just pick a few?


Gary grew impatient.  He started yelling at me to get back out of the dumpster so that we could get home and have our afternoon snack.  Although he was excited by getting a ‘new’ book or two, he wasn’t about to give up milk and cookies because of it.  I told him I was having a hard time deciding.  He said I could just grab a couple now and we could bring a bag the next day and take several more.  That seemed reasonable.  I took two that I had been contemplating and climbed my way back out of the dumpster.  I was thrilled.  Books, for free?  With the prospect of seemingly infinitely more tomorrow?  I’m quite sure that I skipped all the way home, unable to contain my joy.

The next day, I anticipated mining the mountain of books all day long.  Gary and I had both brought bags from home to fill.  After school, we walked quickly toward our intended destination.  We rounded the corner to the street with the dumpster.  It was gone!  All of my excitement was crushed.  Whoever had scheduled the dumpster to be delivered to the house had apparently already had it sent away, presumably to the local dump.  What a waste!  What a travesty!  I had been THISCLOSE to having more books than I could possibly carry, and that dream was dashed in an instant.  Never mind that most of those books were not likely books that would hold the interest and imagination of a seven-year-old.  But the hope that maybe they were…it was heartbreaking.  The books had been there, and then they vanished.  


Years later, and more books than I can possibly count later, I have become something of a book hoarder.  I haven’t read all of my books, though I’ve read many of them, and the fact that I own books I’ve yet to read certainly doesn’t stop me from buying new ones when a new title or storyline piques my interest.  I can only imagine that when I see a new book that speaks to me, whispers its possibilities in my ear, there’s a seven-year-old girl whispering in my other ear, “Take it now while you can!  Who knows if it will still be here tomorrow?”


Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Capo's by Giuseppe Gallo's

August 28, 2013

We were lucky enough to be invited to the soft open at Capo's tonight.  The open-to-the-public opening happens tomorrow.  The food was incredible, and I'm so glad we could be there to help our friends Gary and Cheryl celebrate their newest restaurant venture.  They put in so much of their time, energy, heart, and soul to build this beautiful place from the ground up, and I think all the work is going to pay off in ways they can't even yet imagine.  It was great getting to see lots of family and friends there supporting and celebrating tonight.  We especially thought our lovely waitress Kelsey did a fantastic job, and it was nice to see some familiar faces from the Gallo's staff over there as well.  Just like Gallo's, dining at Capo's was like home--like family.  We wish them all the best!

 Kathy, Cheryl, and me
 Doug and I, making the most of our date night


 Cheryl and her rooster


 The kitchen was crazy-busy, but we couldn't help taking a peek behind the scenes
 Dennis and me

Monday, July 16, 2012

Marlo's Birthday Party

July 15, 2012

What a great time we had celebrating Marlo's birthday.  It's so hard to believe she's so big already!









Thursday, April 12, 2012

The Story Behind the Picture

April 12, 2012

This may seem a random time and place in my blog for this particular entry, so I'll give it a little context. I'm working with my students on descriptive writing right now, and we're doing a photo essay assignment. So as to illustrate the difference between describing what they see in the picture as opposed to describing the story behind the photo, I chose one of my own pictures and used it as an example. This picture of my brother and me happens to be one of my favorites, so this is the one I chose.

Here's the basics of my photo:


Who? My brother Gary and me

What? Opening Christmas presents

When? Christmas, probably 1969

Where? My house in Oklahoma

Why? Well...because it was Christmas!


Not much of a story, huh? No emotions there, nothing to draw the interest of an objective 'reader' of the picture. So what's the story behind the photo? Why is it meaningful to me? Here's a fuller 'picture' of the picture:


I love the smell of pine needles. It means Christmas to me, and Christmas means a great many things to me: love, family, joy, magic. From the time I was a cherub-faced little tot, I have anxiously awaited Christmas morning and all of the gifts, both literal and figurative, it brings. Many, many years ago, before our family was a family of seven, we were a tight-knit group of four, and my older brother, impish and fiercely intelligent, was my hero. On Christmas mornings, I'd follow his lead: he'd listen intently at the door to hear whether or not Mom or Dad was stirring, which was our cue. We were not allowed to open our door until we knew they were awake. When he heard the coffee pot brewing, we'd run out to the living room to see mounds of colorful presents piled high under the festive tree, manyof them bigger than both of us, and stockings filled to the brim with sweets and trinkets.


As a young boy, Gary was, like me, filled with the joy of Christmas. There was a sweetness and an innocence in his face, and always a twinkle in his eye. He played with me, a sense of tenderness in his touch as he patted me on the head and helped my chubby little hands rip at the shiny paper that would reveal a dolly or a stuffed bear for me to love. He was protective of me, and wanted me to be happy.


Later in life, when he succumbed to the demons that haunted his later days--depression, bi-polar disorder, addiction first to alcohol and later to prescription pain killers, and eventually the cancer that ended his life, it was hard to remember the sweet little boy who once took me by the hand and led me through our childhood. When I look back at pictures of our family in our younger days, I can see again the sweet little boy who, for a time at least, knew happiness, and I'm forever thankful for those memories.

Monday, November 14, 2011

Happy Birthday, Gary Martin

November 14, 2011

After-hours birthday party for Gary Martin at Giuseppe Gallo's!
David and Doug
Cheryl, workin' the bar.
Valerie and Carrie
Adorable cousins, Freya and Morgan
Love the Krepp family!

A bundle of adorableness--puppy and baby! (Miss Marlo)

Monday, October 31, 2011

Danielle's Fall Choir Concert

October 31, 2011

It's that time of the year again--Fall Choir Concert time! Alta Sierra and Buchanan put on a joint concert to show off the festival songs they've all been working on. I love that Danielle gets so much joy out of singing and performing on stage. Also, this year Danielle went looking for sponsors, and Auntie Cheryl and Uncle Gary sponsored her for all of the choir shows this year, so their names and the restaurant's name are listed in the program in support of Miss D. It made her so proud to see that--gotta love family and extended family!



Thursday, August 11, 2011

Nostalgia, Continued

August 11, 2011

I went looking online for a picture of the last home I had in Garden Grove a few days ago. Did you know you could find childhood memories on the internet? 11252 Ivanhoe--it was actually only our home for a few years (from my 1st to 4th grade year), but there were a lot of memories there. The living room where one whole wall was mirrors, and kids were only allowed in for special circumstances. (It was nearly impossible to talk to Scott in that room; he was absolutely incapable of carrying on a conversation without being drawn to his own reflection.) The huge den with the wet bar where we kept cream sodas for a treat. That was also where Mom held the Cub Scout meetings, for which the was the Den Mother. The huge fish tank in the hallway with mesmerizing Angel Fish. The huge walk-in playhouse that Dad built in the backyard. The sandbox and jungle gym right next to it, where we would climb up and watch the fireworks that Disneyland shot off every night. Our bedroom with the lavendar paint. Our across-the-street neighbors with the red door. (The mom and dad were Arlene and Charlie. Arlene chewed and smacked her gum all the time; Charlie was always very nice to us, and we lovingly named our pet salamander after him. ) The white rocks lining our driveway. Roses lining the front porch. Dad's red and white Javelin. The family car--the seventies-style station wagon that took us back and forth to Oklahoma each year for Christmas vacation. (Oh man, I was angry at mom when they traded that thing in for a dark green, luxurious Lincoln Continental. She, on the other hand, felt like she was moving up in the world.)

The pets who lived with us there were Maggie and Missy (dogs), Charlie the Salamander, Hansel and Gretel the guinea pigs, Charlie Green, my parakeet, a host of hamsters and more fish than I could possibly count. I took accordian lessons while living there, and Gary took saxophone lessons, and we both took piano. Laura was born while we were living in that house. Mom and Dad's friend Bruce lived with us in the garage for a time, and his sister, Janet, was one of our live-in babysitters. We also had a string of other live-in babysitters, one of whom had two kids (Victor and Janice) who also lived with us.

It's weird how interconnected the memory is. Every little memory brings you to another one. I could go on all day, I suppose, but there are very few people for whom these snippets have any meaning besides myself and Lisa and Scott, and even they were pretty young to remember much of this. Guess I'd better bring myself back from my reverie!


Saturday, June 25, 2011

Very Special Family Dinner Night

June 25, 2011

Why was tonight's Family Dinner Night a special one? Because it was MY choice, and because tonight was the official grand opening of Giuseppe Gallo's restaurant. (They've been open all week, but all the fanfare was on today's date--the real deal opening.)

The place was beautiful and the tables were all full the whole time we were there. We were greeted at the door by the lovely hostess Courtney, who directed us to our seats. Our orders were taken by the very friendly and helpful waitress, Haley. Dean and Mama Carolyn stopped by to make sure we were being well-taken care of, and even Cheryl was able to break away to check in on us and give hugs and kisses all the way around. Even on opening night, packed as they were, everyone made us feel like they couldn't be happier to make our Family Dinner Night a memorable and enjoyable one.

But of course, atmosphere is nothing if the food doesn't live up to the hype. Let me tell you, the food was at least as wonderful as the people who cooked it and served it to us! We were definitely not disappointed.

We started out with the famous Gallo Chips as an appetizer. Bread, cheese, and smoky garlicky goodness. This is the perfect appetizer for our family. Nicholas especially loved the concentration of garlic in the toasty center, but he had to fight his little sister for it. I like it all on its own, and Doug loves to dunk it in the marinara sauce. No matter how you slice it, those Gallo Chips are sure to disappear quickly from the table!

Our meals came with soup or salad. The kids all got the salads, and I was impressed with how fresh and BIG each of those salads were. We should have known then that we were in trouble; there was no way we were going to be able to finish our whole meals. (Luckily, that means leftovers for tomorrow!)
I chose Minestrone Soup, and of course everyone just had to have a taste.
Doug's choice was Clam Chowder. This was amazing. Seriously. Doug was consciously eating slow, small bites just to make it last longer. I got to taste it, and I can't say I blame him. I have vowed to eventually eat my way through their menu, just so I can say I have tried everything. I'm pretty stoked that I didn't actually order this soup, because I can order it next time without breaking my 'rule' of not repeating menu items until I've tried them all.
Next came the entrees. Danielle ordered Nonna's Ravioli. Let me point out that this was the kid's-sized portion--more than plentiful and hearty. (We all shared and tasted each others' dishes, so I know that this ravioli was very satisfying.)

My dish was Linguine Alla Genoa--chicken, garlic, creamy tomato sauce with spinach. Oh my goodness, it was delicious! And what a huge serving!
Okay, so I lied a little. We didn't all share. Nicholas, my brave boy who equates spicy foods with being a manly man, decided to challenge himself with the Diavolo Burger. Loaded with jalepenos and Fresno chiles, this burger might be the one thing I decide to leave off my list when eating my way through the menu. Firey food just doesn't do it for me; I guess I don't feel the need to prove my manliness in that way. I am, as a matter of fact, decidedly un-manly. I'm okay with that. Sometimes Nicholas' ego is a little tougher than his stomach, but he muscled through--with the help of a lot of pomegranate lemonade. He made Haley earn her wage tonight just keeping him hydrated after downing most of the burger. Still, he loved it. This burger, though, be warned, is not for the faint of heart.

Doug and Bree both ordered the heaping serving of Paul's Lasagna. Rich, meaty sauce, gooey cheese, wonderful flavor. I know, because I just had to have a bite. Doug has been dying to try Paul's Lasagna since we saw it on the menu. You should be jealous, I'm telling you. Better yet, you should get yourself down to Giuseppe Gallo's and try something--anything--off of that menu!
With all of that food, you would think there was no way we'd have room for dessert. Oh, my friend, you would be wrong. (Those of you who are of my mindset know that there's always room for dessert, even if it means you might have to put some leftover food in a to-go box first.) Gelato anyone? One chocolate and one vanilla, and spoons all the way around. Perfect end to a perfect meal. Oh, we'll be back soon, believe me....

Sunday, June 19, 2011

A Restaurant is Born--The Grand Opening of Giuseppe Gallo's

June 19, 2011

After weeks of hard labor and lots of love, Giuseppe Gallo's officially opened for business last Friday night. We have loved seeing this restaurant being built up from its inception, and know that Gary and Cheryl have created a family atmosphere that honors love, laughter, and delicious food. We wish them all the best, and look forward to trying out everything on the menu! (We plan to be there a lot.)Miss Kathryn
Val and friends, charming and lovely bartenders
Gary, the amazing Executive Chef
Bree and her fellow hostesses, ready to greet customers.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Giuseppe Gallo's Restaurant

April 13, 2011 Our very good friends just moved back to Clovis, and they're getting ready to open up a fabulous new Italian restaurant with delicious fresh food made from scratch. This is not the first time Gary and Cheryl have opened and run a successful restaurant; they definitely know what they're doing. One of the things that has been very exciting has been watching the transformation of the inside of the building as they are remodeling and outfitting the existing place into the restaurant it will become. I've never before been able to see a business like this being built up from its inception. There's a lot of love and care and expertise laying the groundwork for Giuseppe Gallo's. I can't wait until they are open for business! Those of you who are local can look for them at Willow Station near the beginning of May. You won't want to miss out! Pictures of the process. These are the 'before' pictures. 'After' pictures coming soon.